Fear has always grasped us... since the beginning of the world. You analyze your ambitions and determine the life you want to have. You always envision something but something seems to get in the way... could that be the fear? As humans we have ambitions and visions of what we want our life to be. Fear has a way of injecting something into our brains that stops us & tampers with our ability to achieve any goal. Because we as humans do everything to avoid pain or discomfort in our lives, we give into the fears that are fed by our subconscious.
Over time the fear eats away into our self-confidence. You begin to come up with excuses why somethings just cant be done. You start feeling sorry for yourself, move towards depression and the self esteem in you takes a plunge. Well i can assure you this happens because i have been trough it, and to an extent am still in the middle of it. I have always wondered why i couldn't achieve a lot of things but also to blame everything on fear is just being a coward and taking no responsibilities for your actions. I want to achieve a lot of things, but in life, as anyone else, i have made a lot of wrong turns, wrong decisions.
One example i can give, ever notice that you have no problems coming up with great, profitable ideas? You are convinced that this is the big one, the idea of all ideas! The moment you conceive your idea, the level of excitement surges within you. But as the days go by, the enthusiasm tapers off. This has happened to me. I can assure that its only only me around here who has experienced this!
Unfortunately the people around you have heard you bring in so many ideas and you begin to develop a "talk and no action" reputation. This is again eroding into your self-confidence. Well would you blame that on fear or plain and simple laziness?
We tend to blame things on everyone else except us. That is human nature. Sometimes things might simple to you, but did you ever stop and think, did i explain to the other person what to do? I might know what to do but why do i assume that the other person automatically knows what to do? One of the most simplest things i remember, is to never Assume beacause
Simple message, once you assume you make an ASS of U and ME. :-)
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